When you ask your spouse to be your God, they will always fail you. No human being can bear the weight of being someone else’s ultimate source of joy, security, or identity.
当你要求配偶成为你的上帝时，他必定让你失望。没有哪个人能承受得起这样的重负 —— 成为另一个人喜乐、安全感与自我认同的终极源头。
Timothy Keller – The Meaning of Marriage